Monday, May 18, 2009

still young and fresh

Hi everyone,




If you're googling "lady suit" on google images, and you are slightly afraid of seeing obese people in minimal clothing, shield your eyes as you scroll down to the last pic on the first page.








I wonder how many of you are actually googling that up now XD

HOTHOTHOT, or not: Oxford.

Oh my gosh. I was at Macq today, and I saw the most eyegasmic suits ever. And over coats. OH MY GOSH. I would seriously move to Melb or something to have a chance to wear something like that. It never gets cold enough in Sydney to wear a beautiful overcoat like the one I saw in Oxford.

Digressing,

I was talking to my parents about future career choices etc. Since I was a puny puny little human bean, my parents have drummed into my head, the only 2 possible career choices I could undertake.

Law and Medicine.

On my 3D ambition poster I made in year 2, it says "BELINDA WANTS TO BE A DOCTOR OR A LAWYER IN THE FUTURE".

So by the time I reached high school, I was adamant on becoming a doctor. I love genetics, biology, PE/HEALTH. LOVED IT. But in the recent years my parents have been dissuading me from taking the med path. Because of this, my interest in biology and med in general has dropped quite alot. I found this strange, I'm easily influenced by my parents X)

Reasons against Medicine:

  1. Time consuming
  2. Psychological Trauma (my dad says if watching Neighbours throws me into fits of spastic rage, I shouldn't think about treating other people. Mentally unsound. haaaa T_T)
  3. MOOLAH? WHERE WILL I GET MONEY FROM ?!?!?! Parents?

OH! I'll digress slightly. I've touched on this before, but I see money as super important. Um, the 'money buys happiness' thing. BEE TEE DOUBLE EWE, for all those who say "oh, you're wrong, you don't need money to be happy"- good for you. How convenient for you too. I wish I could be happy without money. In today's society, you need money. It's a source of security.

EXAMPLE,

A family friend and her young son once got lost in some really windy streets (while they were driving). The boy started crying and says something like "WHAT IF WE GET LOST MUMMY, WE'RE GOING TO DIE", and his mum said stuff to calm him down, but nothing worked until she said "Don't worry, I have my credit card with me".

True (and gay, yeah i know) story. 100% True.

But bleh. I'd rather my parents spend money on my sister's education than mine. Damnit, I forgot what I was going to say about money.

Something along the lines of people who have money say stuff like "oh money isn't important", while on the other hand, needy people think otherwise. I don't like it when people say that. It really buys me. "oh money isn't important" is missing a "to me".

Ho hum. My mind is really in small bits and pieces today. I can't think properly. Another thing I dislike. People who take things for granted.

We all do it because we grew up in a time where everything became super nice, air con, technology and whatnot. But have you noticed in new generations, the ATTITUDES of children? OKay, by children, I mean those kids of nasty asian parents who never spend a single proper minute with their kid, never teaching them proper values or manners, always away from home- usually at the office. What's worse is that they're rich. Now these kids think they're super powers in kid kingdom. I had to teach one once. Freaking pain in the neck. Just because you possess a large quantity of wealth, it does not mean you will get a good education, it does not mean you can be friends with anyone, or have all the friends in the world. It especially does not mean you can uphold an attitude with an upturned nose.

I hate snobby kids. I've always hated snobs. I've also noticed that alot of snobby kids do not know of respect and MODESTY. What the hell man. That student I taught once threatened me... "My parents are both lawyers, so you can't tell me what to do. I'll get them to sue you."

You're in my bloody classroom kid. Stay here and shut up for gtfo. Usually when I say "I'll call your parents" kids start behaving better, however the rich ones are like, SO? Ticks me off. I met a parent once, and honestly, she did NOT CARE at all that her son was taunting the other kids, that he was disturbing the class. She's a public nuisance.

I'm moving onto new topics so much D: D: D:

Thinking about my old job can be quite amusing. Teaching kids is fun, but every now and then you get the troublesome one, and it's hard to not look like the bad guy (let alone feel like one). But no matter how bad they are, at such a young age, I do no think they are to blame. People who bring life into the world should really reassess the amount of new responsibilties they have. Nowadays, some parents wrongly think that schools are the only place for education. What about the home? What you do around the house, how to act towards other people at the shopping centre will be reflected in your child- someone who looks up to you no matter how evil you are. (Though this is totally and utterly untrue once the kid grows up into a teen. haa).

*** I will say no more on this topic. I sound like an old lady nagging young people at bus stops.

RE: Still young and fresh.

My parents thinks I'm not adventurous enough. When I look for a job, I want security. They're thinking "the higher the risk, the higher the returns". They say because I'm still young, I can do whatever I want with bigger ambitions etc, because when else can I do it? When I'm greying and reaching my days of hormone imbalance and uncontrollable bowels? NOW IS THE TIME-they say. But I'm too afraid.

I'd rather stick to one type of career all my life, instead of changing every 3 or so years (like statistics predict). And I don't mean staying in one company for life (though that may not be too bad :).

Okay. Starting to post this late was a bad idea. you have all wasted your time. Such an anticlimax. I have nothing else to report, except that I LOOK FOWARD TO ALL MY ECO LESSONS. I actually learn alot. I'm dreading my boring classes alot though.

I promise I'll blog nicer next time. haa. It started off okay but I just kept going on tangents. Bleeh. Why am I so much more tired than usual... this constant lethargy is killing me. =-=;

PS. not sure if I mentioned this, but I watch Seven Pounds and Slumdog Millionaire. My mum and I both loved Slumdog. Especially all that dancing during the credits. Oh and INDIA IS SO COLOURFUL. I love it!

23 counterattacks:

Topher said...

I haven't been in touch with the caucasian kids nowadays. Back then when I was a caucasian kid, they were really nice. The asian parents are too work obsessed. Perhaps they think if they get financially secure first, they can deal with child rearing 'later'? Or they plain just don't care yeah. I hate 'em.

I would like SOME change of job. As in sort of the same field and stuff, but expansion. And travelling the world to help other countries out and that kind of thing.

Keep dreaming, Topher. Keep dreaming.

Anonymous said...

Wow Belle, very insightful blog!

About the "ambitions" thing. I guess as I was a kid it was always drummed into my head that I would be a doctor someday, because apparently that's what all the smart kids do and apparently I was one of those smart kids. But I've come to realised that as a kid (and still) I never really had a passion for it. Luckily my parents have given up on that dream now, and agree that it kind of eats up your life.

On the topic of snobs: I hate them too. What really erks me is arrogance and lack of humility in people. I can't stand it.

Anonymous said...

What kind of scares me is how our children will turn out. I'd hate to think if I had any, they would act so 'retarded.'

My dad keeps telling me to get a secure job and hence medicine. I don't really have any preferences but I have fields that I won't ever enter, such as Commerce and Business.

I hope my passion for learning Japanese will lead me to a job I'll enjoy doing.

Anonymous said...

I don't approve of the lifestyles of the post gen y generation sometimes. They seem really spoilt because of the lack of attention from parents.

Money is important but you only need a certain amount to get by. You don't need 100k+ a year. Although parents would say otherwise but I guess they want what's best for us and we are still young and inexperienced with the ways of the world.

Mini said...

Money is not the source of happiness. So what if someone has alot of money and assets? Are they going to take it with them when they die? And there is an ultimate statistic -- One in one eventually die =P

Also, there is a fact that you can't get money for nothing. Do you think most the parents of these kids just sat back and saw money coming through? They probably worked (really hard) for it, and were obviously gifted and rewarded for doing so.

mishmashmosh said...

@ Topher: BACKPACKING :) You can travel the world. :D

@ Jero: :O You're right about the arrogance and lack of humility! I just don't get how parents teach this to their kids. Is it how they act at home and with other people? ==; Shocks me

@ Rex: I hope you get a job where you can use your Japanese skills, because it would be such a shame, you have such a passion for the language (and the country I assume :P)

@ Jason: Yeah. Gen Y. 100K + incomes are just for the quality of life. Because they get to enjoy that amount of wealth, it does not mean they're are superior, I think that is what they need to teach kids these days :)

@ Mini: obviously you didn't get the gist of my blog.

Money isn't important, TO YOU, because you see it that way. In our current world, I find it hard to get by without money.

Parent's who work hard for money should also spend quality time with their children.
Just earning money for their kids to spend is not the only thing that is required for them. EDUCATION at home. Kids need to learn things like respect, discipline and loyalty/honour.
I never said I hate rich people. Noo, I hate rich people who are snobs who turn their kids into snobs, letting them think they are above all the other kids. That's all.

alanine said...

Yes, sadly in this day and age, kids didn't really go through what, say, their parents have.

Hence they are more susceptible to think that they can have whatever they so please and that everyone else is at their beck and call.

Which leads to their arrogance and inability to appreciate that the things they have are blessings. And they unfortunately lack the qualities like discipline and common sense, and that they seem to hate to lose, because their (Asian) parents will cover for them (Topher can confirm). They are still ever so relevant.

That's what I think anyway.

That is all from me. I have probably overstayed my welcome.

chrisau said...

GARRRHH

I CAN'T BELIEVE I LOOKED IT UP!! D:

"fat lady in bathing suit* was very disturbing :P

very nice post, belle C=
i don't get it. why do parents these days have kids if they're not willing to spend time with them? (maybe it was an accident) but i couldn't imagine the burden of having a kid who is arrogant, spoilt and disrespectful.

anyways, no more google images pls =)

did you like seven pounds?

Bosco said...

Hi Belle!

I sympathise with you on the money factor. Many people ask me why I want to do Commerce and quite honestly, it's not cause I LOVE LOVE it. I just find it palatable but it's the financial security that a commerce-type job offers that really drives my Commerce amibition.

I shall be blogging about something similar to this in my next blog. Just need to wait a while and fix up some things.

Unknown said...

Singaporean parents are 100% guilty for spending zero time with their kids, since everyone has a maid there or something. Actually, one maid per kid, so thats even worse.

My brother tutors now, he had this little bitch of a girl.

Brother: Could you do this question now?
Girl: No, I don't feel like it.
Brother: Shuttit and do it

;D Geez i love my family. But yeah, i realised chinese kids now can be super obnoxious. When i did childcare with all these bogan kids, they were actually really respectful and awesome. Even more surprisingly, they came from Pacific Hills.

Slumdog rocked. Sandy didnt like it. I was appalled.

inamotoichiban said...

oxford has the nicest clothes and wen u walk into the shop everything's so colour coordinatedly designed. but they are oh so expensive :( 100+ bucks for everything

lol at bosco's comment

someone who's been to india said...

india is a shithole
it smells like crap
the only colours are various shades of grey
what was colourful is soon coated in layers of dirt and grime. oh joy i'm going back there this year.

Chez said...

Yes, little kids are so spoilt these days. Once, at the library, this little kid asked me to find a non-fiction book for him. He had the number, so i just told him to go to the last column and look for the number, and he just said that he couldn't be bothered, so I should go and get it for him. What a bum >.<

For the careers thing, yeh, I don't want my parents to pay for all my fees, so probabli apply for scholarships?? But what do you really want to do in uni?? And I agree with most of the pplz here.. you don't need THAT much money to live a comfy life, but that doesn't mean that money isn't important at all, coz you only have one life and you want to live well. And in today's society, without a decent amount of money, life's hard..

Thashan said...

Well I'm just commenting here because everyone else is. Dam peer pressure. haha


Great blog as always Belinda. I'm with you on the money thing, best advice Flood gave in year 10 commerce; money buys happiness, I agree with that to a certain extent. I mean, if I don't have money how else can I buy a Maybach (all the other rappers have - google images this).

catch ya later

Thashan

Unknown said...

Woot, despite our current beliefs, i'd have to agree, that MONEY DOES EQUATE TO HAPPINESS (in some contexts that is).

And belle, regarding medicine, my dad, being a doctor, has always advised me against pursuing a medical degree, since he says it is tedious, and not worth wat you define as 'moolah'.
Seriously, $200k+ aint worth the effort, if you only come home twice a week, for 6 hours xD. I mean, you'll have enough time to enjoy it right?

If you're really into money-making, then something business related would be a better option.
Now i sound like some materialistic, money minded person xD.

On another note, I too used stereotype North Shore ppl as being snobs and hence no manners. However, when i went to Barker, i realised that that was the place where many of my great friendships started. I mean where-else could you find friends who had a father as a director of American Express, a grandfather as Premier of NSW or a mother who lent her voice to Nova's wacked audio recordings.

Nigger Hater said...

who the fuck is this Thashan guy?
what a tool
thinks he's a rapper
You pale, pastey, pastrami-eatin cracker mothafucker, twenty bucks says I make you my bitch in any rap battle any day in my hood.

Shaunathan said...

Wow...this blog is turning political.....

RE: Nathan (Eddy)
Haha....I'm glad that u found out that not all North Shore people are totally rude and obnoxious? haha. However....being "blonde" is an entirely different matter. (me being a prime example)....hah

Well i spose money can buy happiness in the sense that you can buy a better environment, allowing better security and stability.

Like....if you have a nice house in relation to a a crap nieghtbourhood compared to a crap house in a nice neighbourhood.....you might not be directly wealthy....but with a bit more money...you can technically buy a better environment for yourself and your future.

Just looking at it from a geographic point of view haha.

Nigger Hater Hater said...

lmfao

'Nigger Hater' - who are you?

'You pale, pastey, pastrami-eatin cracker mothafucker, twenty bucks says I make you my bitch' - that quote is infamous. Only a few people I know would try and use those lines: Victor & Bryan. So who are you?

I thought this was some random loser on the internet, but it's one of you tools.

haha

Nigger Hater Hater

Unknown said...

Nigger Hater Hater, you aren't the least bit annonymous either. I know exactly who you are ;D


As for Nigger Hater, I got stuck at the same conclusion. But then I thought Bryan doesnt read blogs and Victor doesn't have the balls to post that shet on Belle's blog.

So, no answer as yet.

Nigger Hater said...

nigger hater hater,
Haters want me clapped and chromed it ain't easy
Cops wanna knock me, D.A. wanna box me in
But somehow, I beat them charges like Rocky

how do you like my rhymes, bitch?

Belle said...

Dear all the haters + Lee-Anne,

Seriously, I thought it was VERY obvious who it was. So I confronted Nigger Hater today, and I was right.

Read the stuff that person wrote and take a good look around you ;) It isn't that hard.

Sorry I lied today Thash, I wasn't supposed to say :P

Nigga hater hater said...

Well Nigga Hater,

your rhymes? Please, thats Jay-Z and everyone knows it. As for spittin' rhymes, just off the top of my head:

You rappers talkin' shit can just D-I-E,
Cos' I'm notorious like B-I-G,
So don't try me,
I come up on you homie and fray more,
put on youtube just so you can freakin' rate more,
I love haters, so hate more,
I stay on the grind like Tony Hawk on a skateboard.
Why you talking shit at me for, fuck it lets get it,
Belle said I was sick but I already knew I was prolific,
Nigga I'm the business, you fuck with my clique, you in the back of the trunk wrapped up like Christmas.
Yes, I'm ill, these other niggaz not and still I aim to kill for real, I'm a firedrill.
So if you wanna talk shit, I'll hit you with choppers,
have this nigga screaming a bitch at an opera.

YEAHHHHHH

derp.

(Sorry to Belle and everyone else who has to read this :D)

mishmashmosh said...

I loled at the opera part.

I wasn't expecting that ;D

WELL THASH, it might be a while before you hit the charts 8-)

 
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